Michigan Estate Planning Blog

What Happens When Blended Families Ignore Estate Planning?

 

The idea of a “Brady Bunch” family, where two adults with children from prior marriages blend their families, is filled with good intentions. With time and patience, a real family can be created if all parties are willing participants. That is until one of the parents dies and the will is revealed, according to the article “The Brady Bunch Breaks Down: Estate Fights Tear Stepfamilies Apart” from The Wall Street Journal.

The typical estate plan for couples and their families is for the surviving spouse to inherit all the assets when the first parent dies. In a blended family, non-biological children are often disinherited. The spouse has no legal obligation to give anything to the biological children, and, making matters worse, the stepsiblings will inherit the deceased stepparent’s assets.

All of the work to blend the families can be undone. The stories are heartbreaking: children changing locks and kicking out their stepmother before the funeral, adult children learning they’ve inherited nothing, while the stepmother receives a lifetime of assets.

Good planning with an experienced estate planning attorney can prevent these and other ugly scenarios.

Establishing a joint trust to give children equal shares after the second parent dies sounds like a good idea. However, if the stepparent moves the assets into a new trust and names their own biological children as the beneficiaries, the first parent’s children are disinherited.

Creating separate trusts can work. However, they need to be iron-clad. Other options are distributing assets while the parent is living or leaving a specific amount (either a dollar amount or a percentage) in the will directly to the named children. Some families keep biological children in the estate plan and fund a separate trust for the spouse and stepchildren.

A prenuptial agreement is a good tool for blended families. However, it should be in addition to, not instead of, an estate plan.

In some states, the default rule is for the surviving spouse to keep half the community property and have no right in the deceased’s separate property. Most states also allow a surviving spouse to claim an elective share, typically a third or half of the estate.

Another problem that blended families must address is planning for illness and incapacity. The spouse usually makes medical decisions and funeral arrangements. However, stepchildren may have different ideas than their stepparents. Both parents should have their wishes expressed in documents, including a Power of Attorney, Healthcare Power of Attorney, Living Will and whatever documents are required by state and federal laws.

Consider naming an executor or trustee who is neither a biological child nor a relative. Having someone who is impartial and trustworthy could relieve pressure on the children.

An estate planning attorney can clarify the possible issues arising for stepfamilies regarding asset distribution, asset protection, medical directives and planning for incapacity.

Reference: The Wall Street Journal (June 1, 2024) “The Brady Bunch Breaks Down: Estate Fights Tear Stepfamilies Apart”

Should I have an Irrevocable Trust?

 

You may have heard the terms “revocable trusts” and “irrevocable trusts.” Both are created to hold assets for different purposes. The differences are explained in a recent article from Kiplinger, “With Irrevocable Trusts, It’s All About Who Has Control.”

Both types of trusts are separate legal entities created through contracts. They name a trustee who is in charge of the trust and its assets. The trustee is a fiduciary, having a legal obligation to manage the assets in the trust for the beneficiaries. Depending on how the trust is structured, these are the people who will receive assets or income generated by the assets in the trust.

With the revocable trust, the grantor—the person who creates the trust—can be a trustee and maintain total control of the trust. They can change the terms of the trust, beneficiaries, and successor trustees at any time. In exchange for this level of control, however, come some downsides. The revocable trust doesn’t have the same level of protection as an irrevocable trust while the grantor is living.

The irrevocable trust trades control for benefits. The grantor of an irrevocable trust can’t change the trust once it’s been created, nor can they move assets in and out of the trust at will. Beneficiaries may not be changed either. However, when the irrevocable trust is properly created with an experienced estate planning attorney, they achieve many estate and tax goals.

Your estate planning attorney will be able to explain which irrevocable trust suits your situation, as there are many different kinds.

An irrevocable trust where the grantor is also the beneficiary is referred to as a Domestic Asset Protection Trust or DAPT. The grantor is allowed to be the beneficiary of the trust, but it has to be created in one of the 20 jurisdictions where the grantor is allowed to be the beneficiary. You can have a trust created in a jurisdiction other than your own.

The first step is to determine how to fund an irrevocable trust, where assets are transferred into the trust. There are fine points here. For instance, you can’t fund an irrevocable trust if there are issues with the IRS or the threat of litigation from a creditor. If the dispute goes to court, a judge can set aside the transfers into the trust as they were made with the intent to circumvent a creditor’s claim under fraudulent transfer laws.

Creating irrevocable trusts, like much of estate planning, needs to be completed before issues arise. Decisions about naming trustees, successor trustees, beneficiaries, and funding sources should be discussed with an experienced estate planning attorney first.

Reference: Kiplinger (April 28, 2024) “With Irrevocable Trusts, It’s All About Who Has Control”

How to Plan for Beneficiaries with Disabilities

 

When creating an estate plan, it’s important to consider all of the possibilities—including disability, says a recent article, “Beneficiaries with disabilities will impact plans,” from The News-Enterprise. A well-prepared estate plan can protect all heirs.

Disability planning typically includes two types of protections: first, to protect the disabled individual’s inheritance from the loss of government benefits. This includes Medicaid, SSI, food stamps, Section 8 housing and other means-tested assistance programs.

Good planning protects continuity of care. Most disabled individuals who qualify for government benefits live in supportive housing communities and/or are helped by caregivers. Losing access to these support systems could become overwhelming to a disabled person.

If the inherited assets are used in place of these programs because of poor planning, upon their depletion, the disabled individual would have to start the process of applying for government assistance all over again. The possibility of being assigned to the same programs and receiving the exact same support is unlikely. A long wait time for services could also become problematic.

Second, an estate plan that considers a disabled individual must protect them from vulnerabilities and exploitation. Financial scams and outright thefts are not limited to the able-bodied. A disabled person known to have access to an inheritance becomes a target for scammers. The estate plan needs to ensure a responsible and savvy individual serving as the trustee is looking out for their best interests.

Testamentary documents are most helpful in estate planning for people with disabilities. The most common mistakes made are completely disinheriting the beneficiary or putting funds under the control of a caregiver. Disinheritance is common, as most people don’t understand there are ways to prevent the loss of services while keeping inherited assets available for the individual.

Giving funds to a caregiver is almost always a recipe for disaster. The caregiver may not follow the directions or become a victim of scammers, leaving the disabled heir without the benefit of their inheritance.

One answer is a third-party trust. This is created by one person—the grantor—for the benefit of another person—the beneficiary. It is funded with assets that never belonged to the beneficiary, so any funds in the trust aren’t subject to a payback provision to the state when the beneficiary dies. Third-party trusts are an excellent tool for estate planning and can also pass funds along to contingent beneficiaries when the original beneficiary passes.

An experienced estate planning attorney will know the nuances of planning for disabled individuals. Your estate plan deserves to be created by a professional to protect those you love.

Reference: The News-Enterprise (April 27, 2024) “Beneficiaries with disabilities will impact plans”

 

Caregiving and Estate Planning Provides Peace of Mind for All Generations

 

If your goal is to keep the farm, ranch, or small business in the family, planning, including estate planning and caregiving, is the number one strategy to making it happen. Families may dissolve the farm or business without advance planning to pay for long-term care expenses. A recent article from AgWeek, “Caregiving plans can provide peace of mind for farming and ranching families,” explains what needs to be done.

Part of the issue is that most ranchers and business owners won’t qualify for Medicaid because they own a significant asset. Having to sell off something they’ve worked their entire lives to build is often a result of no planning.

If you have a long-term care insurance policy, it needs to be carefully reviewed to determine what conditions need to be met for benefits to be paid. For example, most policies have a “waiting period,” so you’ll need to plan how to pay for caregiving during the months before the policy kicks in.

There’s also confusion about the difference between Medicare and Medicaid. Medicare is health insurance for medical expenses, while Medicaid is usually used for long-term care and caregiving needs. However, Medicaid is a needs-based program. An estate planning attorney can help the family determine what needs to happen in advance, whether the goal is to protect the farm, ranch, or small business while helping the aging parent become eligible for Medicaid.

Estate planning includes planning for incapacity, which can occur at any time but is more likely as we age. Suppose the individual hasn’t completed a power of attorney, healthcare power of attorney, and other medical directives. In that case, the family will need to go to court to obtain conservatorship or guardianship to take over the person’s financial matters and make healthcare decisions on their behalf. An estate planning attorney can help the family prepare the documents and create a plan.

Having an estate plan in place is also another means of protecting the family’s assets from elder abuse. Everything needs to be documented, and records need to be well-organized so every family member knows where documents are, where assets are and the plan for the inevitable events of aging.

Meeting with an estate planning attorney to create the last will and testament, power of attorney and all other planning documents can minimize the stress and costs involved. Without planning, everything becomes far more complicated, costly and stressful for all concerned.

Reference: AgWeek (May 14, 2024) “Caregiving plans can provide peace of mind for farming and ranching families”

What Information Should Be in a Will?

 

While it’s clearly more fun to plan for a baby shower than to contemplate your own mortality, making arrangements for the eventualities of life as we age—including incapacity and, yes, our own passing—does bring peace of mind. It’s necessary for everyone 18 and older, says a recent article from BestLife,

“The 10 Most Important Things to Include in Your Will, Experts Say.”
The reason is simple: if you are incapacitated and cannot speak for yourself regarding healthcare decisions or your financial life, you need someone to do so for you. This is as much a part of your estate plan as asset distribution.

Planning for incapacity includes having a Power of Attorney (POA) and possibly a lifetime or revocable trust. The POA assigns someone else to manage everyday financial matters. The Healthcare POA is used to designate someone else to make medical decisions on your behalf if you can’t do so. You’ll need to discuss these roles with the person or people being named to ensure that they are comfortable with the responsibilities. Be sure that your Healthcare POA knows your wishes regarding medical directives and will carry them out, even if they feel differently about your wishes.

Your Last Will and Testament is part of a group of documents, including the POAs mentioned above. A will is used to name an executor who administers your estate. The executor has a large task, including gathering information for all assets, filing final taxes and estate taxes, paying off debts, notifying family members and distributing assets. Your executor should be someone you trust and who has the financial acumen to take on all these tasks, as well as managing heirs who don’t always appreciate the executor’s responsibilities.

You’ll need backups for all the people in all roles. Let’s say you chose a respected friend of many years to be your executor. If they become ill or die themselves, who will oversee your estate? You need a second, or even a third, backup executor to be named in your will. The same goes for trusts. A successor trustee is necessary to be sure that your trust and its assets are in good hands.

Minor children or dependents are protected through a will that is used to name a guardian (and a backup guardian) for minor children. If no one is named, the court will decide who will raise your child(ren). Similar issues need to be addressed, such as when you would want your children to receive an inheritance—all at once or when they reach legal age. Could it be specific percentages based on age? Picking the right person and creating a plan will ensure that the children have a good life, even in your absence.

Keeping wills up to date is critical to ensuring that your wishes are followed at every stage of life. Everyone involved should know where the original copy of the will is located. Some estate planning attorneys will safeguard your will, while others recommend keeping it at home in a fire and water-proof safe. Whichever route you take, tell your executor and family members where it can be found.

Discuss the use of trusts with your estate planning attorney. Using trusts can minimize the amount of your estate needing to go through probate, which can be time-consuming and costly.

Don’t neglect your furry or feathered friends. If your lifestyle includes companion animals who are dear to you, consider who would take care of them if you became incapacitated or died. You can use a pet trust to provide assets for their care and name a caretaker, so they don’t end up in a shelter.

Avoid family battles by including your wishes for personal possessions with special meaning in your will. Family heirlooms, artwork and jewelry are among the items families fight over. Spare your family this stress by naming them in your will or gifting them while you are still living.

Digital assets have become a part of our modern lives. Suppose you leave a list of accounts, usernames, passwords and specific directions for your wishes. In that case, your executor will need to be able to manage your digital assets, including financial accounts, photos, subscriptions, airline miles, email and social media accounts.

If you wish to leave assets to a charity, you can do so in your will or make gifts before you die. Speak with your estate planning attorney about how to bequeath assets to a charity, which should be done in alignment with your overall estate plan.

Reference: BestLife (May 3, 2024) “The 10 Most Important Things to Include in Your Will, Experts Say”